I have been watching abit of a train wreck as of late. A friend of mine decided they didn't want to be married anymore. The reason's of witch are not important to the story. What is important is how they did it. They lied to almost everybody around them and said it was to protect the one they were leaving. Then they satrted not being themselves not just the lieing but they got jeloues concited and all the attention had to be on them all the time, a complete 180 to how they were and a complete 180 from the reason I and many other liked them.
First there was an infatuation then an affair and then after being confronted by there spouse they lied and denied it. Now it'sworth mentioning that I only think people lie because they think other people are stupid. Well their spouse wasn't stupid then started to relize "maybe it's not all my fault" and slowly eveyone around them started seeing it all wasn't the spouse fault. Now because of the lies and decepition my friend is a train wreck. It was painful to watch but as you may imagine it's kinda hard to stop a runaway train.
Over 10 years ago I had a wife (no not Lorna) and she couldn't tell me the truth if her life depended on it. I don't know why. I don't think I ever gave her reason to lie to me. But she did even after she left she couldn't tell me the truth that she had left for another man. I knew his name, where he lived where he worked (they worked for the co. but he was in Calgary). She lied to me one last time and I told her "I'm not blind or stuip you leaving didn't hurt you lieing, now that hurt". I don't think she ever got it I hope and pray that she did. I hope her lies didn't backfire on her like they did to my friend
I guess people are just looking for that greener grass. So is that pain and misery my friend is going through is that becasue the fence is really high and hard to get over or is that lush grass just a mirage. All I know for me is if all that haddn't happened to me I would never had met Lorna I wouldn't have had kids. There is not a friend I hold dear to me now I would have. I know I found a much better field I hope Marie did and I hope my friend does to.
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I don't think for a moment that anyone involved was stupid. I lied because I was ashamed of what I had done. I still am. But I am working to repair those relationships and I hope you will give me the opportunity to do that with you, too.
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